Losing a loved one is one of the toughest moments in a person's life. Between all the emotions and arrangements, you try to organize a farewell that does justice to the deceased. Music plays an essential role in this. It can provide comfort, bring back memories and give words to feelings that are difficult to express. Dela, a specialist in funeral care, compiled this top 10 based on the wishes of surviving relatives. These are the songs that are played most often during funerals in the Netherlands.
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Schubert – Ave Maria
At number 1 is a timeless classic. Franz Schubert composed this piece in 1825. Although the text originally comes from a poem by Walter Scott, the Latin prayer text 'Ave Maria' (Hail Mary) is the version that touches most people. The serene, almost heavenly melody offers peace and space for reflection at the moment of the final farewell.
Andrea Bocelli & Sarah Brightman – Time to Say Goodbye
A worldwide phenomenon. The powerful voices of Andrea Bocelli and Sarah Brightman make this farewell a grand and compelling moment. “Con te partirò” (With you I will leave) is about saying goodbye, but also about the journey that continues in memory. “You, my moon, are with me. My sun, you are with me.”
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Paul de Leeuw – The Stone
Originally by Bram Vermeulen, but immortalized by Paul de Leeuw. The lyrics are pure poetry: “I moved a stone in a river on earth. Now I know that I will never be forgotten.” The song beautifully explains that every life, no matter how short or long, has had an influence. Your existence has forever changed the flow of the river.
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Claudia de Breij – Can I come to you then?
This song from 2009 has become one of the most beloved Dutch songs of all time. It is about the universal need for safety and security. “When the end comes, and when I'm scared, can I be with you?” It is often played as a final greeting, or as an expression of gratitude for the support of loved ones.
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Eric Clapton – Tears in Heaven
The background of this song makes it extra heartbreaking. Eric Clapton wrote it after the tragic death of his 4-year-old son Conor, who fell from a skyscraper. In 'Tears in Heaven' he wonders whether his son would still recognize him in heaven. It is a song about intense loss, but also about finding the strength to continue (“I must be strong and carry on”).
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Marco Borsato – There is no such thing as saying goodbye
This song from 2003 is a modern classic at Dutch funerals. The message is comforting: the physical presence disappears, but the memory and love remain. “I'll leave, but I won't leave you.” For many, this precisely expresses the feeling that a deceased person will always remain a part of your life.
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Robbie Williams – Angels
Is there life after death? Are there angels watching over us? In the ballad 'Angels' Robbie Williams seeks comfort in that thought. When love falls away here on earth, there is the hope that someone from above is watching and offering protection. A thought that gives many people support during a funeral.
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Metallica – Nothing Else Matters
This iconic rock song from 1991 proves that metal can also be very sensitive. James Hetfield originally wrote it for his girlfriend, but the lyrics about unconditional connection and trust (“So close, no matter how far”) resonate strongly at a farewell. It's about a bond that transcends death: nothing else matters anymore.
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James Blunt – Goodbye My Lover
“Goodbye my lover, goodbye my friend. You have been the one, you have been the one for me.” James Blunt scored a huge hit with this song in 2005. The British singer expresses the disbelief and pain of a final farewell. How can something that felt so good be over so suddenly?
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Anouk – Lost
With 'Lost' (2005) Anouk touches the core of raw sadness. The ballad, which she wrote herself, is about the despair you feel when a great love falls away. You literally feel lost in a world that just keeps going. Anouk's powerful voice and the fragile lyrics make this a song that resonates with many.
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